15th July 2006:- All about happenings in the afternoon!!!

SMS Conversation on 15.07.06 (Sat) @ 2250hrs

R:
Darling, I’m home & after bath liao. Of course I dun mind u saying, it’s your mouth!
You/you guys can say whatever you/you guys want. Let me share with you. Let’s recap.
1st: I only check out how to there by MRT, I don’t know about driving. Why must you insist that I know how to go there by driving? I already tell you behind MRT liao & I told you many times that its opposite TMB, across the road, you still got the cheek to say, you didn’t tell them & shout at me & blame me?
2nd: if someone is driving there, please make an effort to check out how to go & not rely on passengers. I don’t want to be held responsible should the direction I gave is wrong. I know someone is there waiting there to say: “Aiya, all because you give wrong direction that’s why….” I hate finger pointing!!!
3rd: appreciate your mum’s effort to get there fast, but next time, smart can liao, dun act smart!
4th: I already say, alight at Blk 123 & we walk there, I guess, they should be nearby, but what happen? Your dad chose to drive off & @the same time, you raise your voice & say me! I repeatly told you, I only know how to get there by MRT. I didn’t blew off/give bad attitude, but next time, reflect on what you did & react yourself 1st, before commenting others. Thanks!

J: (23:14:02)
Darling, I wish to tell you, I don’t think I have shouted @ you
2nd: I don’t have Irene’s address in the 1st place, how to check?
3rd: I never insist that you know how to go by driving.
4th: what do you mean by act smart?
5th: my Dad only wanted to given us a lift to Blk 122, so when he can’t see the Blk, of course he chose to drive off.
6th: if you want to vent anger at me, do so to me, not to my parents!
Your attitude towards my Dad, or rather the comment about you are not the one driving was not appropriate! I don’t think I ever given such attitude to your parents. I wish I can. But as a respect, I keep to myself, case I don’t want to end up you saying I don’t trust your mum’s upbringing of kid!

R:
Darling, I wish to tell you, I don’t think I have shouted @ you. (You don’t think you have, but you did, you don’t realize it!)
2nd: I don’t have Irene’s address in the 1st place, how to check? (I already given you when I reach your house, if you want, should have checked by then)
3rd: I never insist that you know how to go by driving. (Ha-ha, you said it! If you come by MRT, how would you walk? You are now in a car, & you ask such a question? Stupid right? So what if I tell you how to walk? Are you going to alight me @MRT &let me walk?)
4th: what do you mean by act smart? (Hokkien saying: smart can liao, don’t act smart. Don’t know the way still want to direct here & there, your Dad said turn right @ traffic light, is correct liao, yet she confidently say NO, end up we @200+, then got to do U-turn.)
5th: my Dad only wanted to given us a lift to Blk 122, so when he can’t see the Blk, of course he chose to drive off. (Fine! I appreciate that! But if want to drive off, then why ask me?)
6th: if you want to vent anger at me, do so to me, not to my parents! (I’m not venting at anyone, just stating the fact! If you think you can’t accept my frankness, I apologize! I will be more tactful in future!)
Your attitude towards my Dad, or rather the comment about you are not the one driving was not appropriate! I don’t think I ever given such attitude to your parents (Now what attitude did I give? I’m stating the fact, if I’m the driver, I will check out the route, sadly, I’m NOT! Like I said, I will be more tactful!)
I wish I can. But as a respect, I keep to myself, case I don’t want to end up you saying I don’t trust your mum’s upbringing of kid! (Haha, it’s ok, you didn’t tell them, you told me & it has already imprint into me, although they don’t know.)

J: (23:24:34)
Anyway, what’s past is past; I don’t want to keep dwelling on unhappy issues. We just married for a year. Not healthy to keep quarrelling. Just hope to talk nicely to you.

R:
Ha-ha, who is quarrelling? Who dwell on it? Like I had explain, I didn’t even being unhappy with you for shouting at me & insisting I know the way, yet, you malign that I got bad attitude! So who is dwelling?

J: (23:49:32)
I really don’t know what I must do, because I’m not totally at fault! Anyway, like what I said, what’s past is past. All I hope for is a happy relationship… you with my family, me with yours, altogether happy, k? :)

R:
Ha-ha, nothing you need to do, just be yourself! Happy? Ha-ha, I will try for your sake, but if someone is trying to be funny, don’t blame me for being nasty!

J: (23:56:49)
I hope that someone is not someone in my family. You never seem to talk much with my dad nowadays, your laughter aren’t present anymore in my house. K, I wouldn’t bother you to much, later end up quarrel again.

R:
Ha-ha, my laughter? No more meh? My laughter is everywhere! Wherever you & Nicholas are around, my laughter will always be there! Hmm…don’t talk meh? Still talk what. Don’t worry, will not quarrel anymore!

3rd July 2006:- Slight Argument

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1) U bring in nicholas, he slep in ur arms. if bring in the cot, he dun slep on it, then the next AM, gt2bring out again, might as well leave it outside.
Reply @ 07:31:13
U bring in nicholas, he slep in ur arms. if bring in the cot, he dun slep on it, then the next AM, gt2bring out again, might as well leave it outside....FOR OTHERS TO USE. U LEFT OUT THE LAST STATEMENT! I TOT LAST TIME WE AGREED WHEN NIC CAN USE THE PEN, THEN OPEN IT UP FOR HIS COUSINS?NOW NIC NOT AT HOMETHEN U ALL USE, WHAT'S THE MEANING OF THIS? TOTALLY NO REPECT AT ALL, ESP THE COT IS POPO BUY FOR NIC. ANYWAY, PLS TELL UR MUM TO FEED 45DEG INCLINE. I FORGOT TO TELL. THANKS!
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2) Continue to throw ur tanturms & continue to be sacarstic. u will go far! alwis say will learn will learn, but... never learn. still so anxious over small/trival matters!
Reply @ 07:35:41
FYI, THIS COT ISSUE IS NOT ABOUT LEARNING.ITS ABOUT REPECT! NIC HASNOT EVEN PLAY IN IT, OTHERS GO IN AND PLAY.I WON'T ALLOW THIS TO HAPPEN AGAIN TILL NIC HIMSELF CAN USE IT UP2U2SAY WHAT U WANT!
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3) Ok. Then next time, ur parents drive 2fetch u home, think on FRI rite? let me know. I need2prepare something4them 2bring back. That I oledi infd mum earlier when I feeding. OK I never respect u? soli:)
Reply @ 07:42:48
NOW ITS U WHO IS BEING SACARSTIC. DUN THINK I DUNO WHAT U WANT2LET THEM BRING HOME!! FYI ALSO, ANOTHER REASON Y I M TAKING CARE OF NIC IS BECOS UR MUM IS STILL SICK (FLU).
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4) Dun worry!! I will jolly well make sure that will never happen again too! That you dun hv to worry. Just might need to trouble ur parents abit oni. definitely not talking about the cot issue for learning.
Reply @ 07:53:55
I DUN NEED ANOTHER COT! U WANT ME2COME HOME NOW2EXPLAIN? IF NOT, THEN IS SINUS. I CAN HEAR FROM HER VOICE!
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5) I'm not being sacarstic. I never meant2b. I will bring it 2ur hse. no point leaving it here. O may be should not bring it home, i will buy 1 new cot&bring it 2ur hse. This cot used by others liao, no longer solely Nic's! Wow, u fortunate teller ah, @Bt Merah also can know my mum still got flu? Wow can gimi 6 numbers4TOTO tonight? Btw my mum no flu liao.
Reply @ 07:56:06
FYI, I M NT FEELING WELL. ANYTIME CAN FAINT IN THE STREETS. SO BE ALERT WHEN UR HANDPHONE RINGS. MAY BE CALLING FROM HOSPITAL.
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6) U bring in nicholas, he slep in ur arms. if bring in the cot, he dun slep on it, then the next AM, gt2bring out again, might as well leave it outside....FOR OTHERS TO USE. U LEFT OUT THE LAST STATEMENT!: "I nv left the last statement, u overly sensitive & anxious over ur son!" I TOT LAST TIME WE AGREED WHEN NIC CAN USE THE PEN,: "Izit nic using the Pen now? I guess our definition of nic using the Pen differs." THEN OPEN IT UP FOR HIS COUSINS?NOW NIC NOT AT HOMETHEN U ALL USE, WHAT'S THE MEANING OF THIS? TOTALLY NO REPECT AT ALL, ESP THE COT IS POPO BUY FOR NIC. "-> BIG DEAL??? like i said, i buy2new1, put@ popo hse, belongs oni to popo! No1 will share & snatch it away from Nic."
Reply @ 07:59:29
NOW U KNOW Y I WANTED U TO PUSH THE COT IN? SO YES, I THINK I CAN BE FOTUNE TELLER LIAO.
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7) U dun need another cot? NO U need it!!1 cos the cot is used by Nic's cousins liao& somemore its bought by his Beloved Popo!! BIG DEAL???Btw, I know u have split headache, sick then rest at home. Y still go work? Did I use my revolver to point at your head to ask you to go to work? I oledi say, let mum take care coz u need to work 2day, but u... refuse to heed!!!
Reply @ 08:02:39
U R TOTALI BEING UNREASONABLE. LIKE I SAID, I DUN NEED A NEW COT. MAY BE TO CLOSE THIS ISSUE, LET ME ASK U 1 QN, THAT WILL SHUT MY MOUTH. WHO'S IDEA WAS IT TO USE THE PEN?
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8) Huh?? Its my idea, anything wrong with that? I'm perfectly fine with that! If there is anything that you are not happy about, trash it out with me! I believed my son will not be so selfish. I will make sure I will educate him to share things with his cousins & siblings! Btw Thanks fo saying that I 'm unreasonable! Cos .. u enlighten me on the issue of how to be REASONABLE:
Which is to shout at other party when things are not done the way the party wants...
This is called REASONABLE.... *PUKE***
Reply @ 08:11:12
WATS DONE CNT BE UNDONE. THERE 'S NO NID TO BUY ANOTHER 1K? I DUN MIND THEY USE, BUT I WANTED NIC TO "OPEN" IT 1ST U C, GET MY POINT? USE LIAO BOBIAN LO. I TAKE CARE OF NIC, COS I KNOW HIS CONDITION THE PAST 2 DAYS. THEN THIS EVENING, I WILL NOT NEED TO ASK MUM HIS MID NIGHT CONDITION, I REALLY DUN WISH TO ARGUE K?
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9) What Bobian??? Still can amend 1... since you see the "open" till so serious...I will surely buy & put at your mum's place. That's for sure! If not, I will do something else... Now, its not asif Nicholas never use the Pen b4. Tha's y I said, our definition differs. NVM, I will know what to do...!!!
Reply @ 08:17:38
SINCE ITS UR IDEA, OK. THANKS. LIKE I SAID, I WON'T BRING UP THIS ISSUE LIAO. GD DAY. ANYWAY, IF YOU WAN2GO BACK TO WORK, TELL ME BY 12.
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10) "NEVER WILL BE". "PLS IF U R TIRED SICK, COME HOME & REST, NO1 WILL PITY U IN THE OFFICE! Like u said: Nicholas need u!!!"
Reply @ 08:22:51
I DUN WAN U 2 BUY K?OoK EVERYBODY CAN USE. PLS DO NOT DO IT BECOS U ANGRY. I REPEAT! DUN NEED U TO DO ANYTHING K? DUNBE ANGRY/PIZZED ANYMORE K? JUZ SLIPPED DOWN AT THE ROAD. DUN THINK YOU WILL BOTHER ANYWAY.
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11) What hapan? R u alrite? Floor slippery? call ur ofic 2x, check you in ofice or not? now in toilet, call u again when out!

2nd July 2006

I dun know what wrong did I done this time???

Anyway, Good night to You, from the both of us...