15th July 2006:- All about happenings in the afternoon!!!

SMS Conversation on 15.07.06 (Sat) @ 2250hrs

R:
Darling, I’m home & after bath liao. Of course I dun mind u saying, it’s your mouth!
You/you guys can say whatever you/you guys want. Let me share with you. Let’s recap.
1st: I only check out how to there by MRT, I don’t know about driving. Why must you insist that I know how to go there by driving? I already tell you behind MRT liao & I told you many times that its opposite TMB, across the road, you still got the cheek to say, you didn’t tell them & shout at me & blame me?
2nd: if someone is driving there, please make an effort to check out how to go & not rely on passengers. I don’t want to be held responsible should the direction I gave is wrong. I know someone is there waiting there to say: “Aiya, all because you give wrong direction that’s why….” I hate finger pointing!!!
3rd: appreciate your mum’s effort to get there fast, but next time, smart can liao, dun act smart!
4th: I already say, alight at Blk 123 & we walk there, I guess, they should be nearby, but what happen? Your dad chose to drive off & @the same time, you raise your voice & say me! I repeatly told you, I only know how to get there by MRT. I didn’t blew off/give bad attitude, but next time, reflect on what you did & react yourself 1st, before commenting others. Thanks!

J: (23:14:02)
Darling, I wish to tell you, I don’t think I have shouted @ you
2nd: I don’t have Irene’s address in the 1st place, how to check?
3rd: I never insist that you know how to go by driving.
4th: what do you mean by act smart?
5th: my Dad only wanted to given us a lift to Blk 122, so when he can’t see the Blk, of course he chose to drive off.
6th: if you want to vent anger at me, do so to me, not to my parents!
Your attitude towards my Dad, or rather the comment about you are not the one driving was not appropriate! I don’t think I ever given such attitude to your parents. I wish I can. But as a respect, I keep to myself, case I don’t want to end up you saying I don’t trust your mum’s upbringing of kid!

R:
Darling, I wish to tell you, I don’t think I have shouted @ you. (You don’t think you have, but you did, you don’t realize it!)
2nd: I don’t have Irene’s address in the 1st place, how to check? (I already given you when I reach your house, if you want, should have checked by then)
3rd: I never insist that you know how to go by driving. (Ha-ha, you said it! If you come by MRT, how would you walk? You are now in a car, & you ask such a question? Stupid right? So what if I tell you how to walk? Are you going to alight me @MRT &let me walk?)
4th: what do you mean by act smart? (Hokkien saying: smart can liao, don’t act smart. Don’t know the way still want to direct here & there, your Dad said turn right @ traffic light, is correct liao, yet she confidently say NO, end up we @200+, then got to do U-turn.)
5th: my Dad only wanted to given us a lift to Blk 122, so when he can’t see the Blk, of course he chose to drive off. (Fine! I appreciate that! But if want to drive off, then why ask me?)
6th: if you want to vent anger at me, do so to me, not to my parents! (I’m not venting at anyone, just stating the fact! If you think you can’t accept my frankness, I apologize! I will be more tactful in future!)
Your attitude towards my Dad, or rather the comment about you are not the one driving was not appropriate! I don’t think I ever given such attitude to your parents (Now what attitude did I give? I’m stating the fact, if I’m the driver, I will check out the route, sadly, I’m NOT! Like I said, I will be more tactful!)
I wish I can. But as a respect, I keep to myself, case I don’t want to end up you saying I don’t trust your mum’s upbringing of kid! (Haha, it’s ok, you didn’t tell them, you told me & it has already imprint into me, although they don’t know.)

J: (23:24:34)
Anyway, what’s past is past; I don’t want to keep dwelling on unhappy issues. We just married for a year. Not healthy to keep quarrelling. Just hope to talk nicely to you.

R:
Ha-ha, who is quarrelling? Who dwell on it? Like I had explain, I didn’t even being unhappy with you for shouting at me & insisting I know the way, yet, you malign that I got bad attitude! So who is dwelling?

J: (23:49:32)
I really don’t know what I must do, because I’m not totally at fault! Anyway, like what I said, what’s past is past. All I hope for is a happy relationship… you with my family, me with yours, altogether happy, k? :)

R:
Ha-ha, nothing you need to do, just be yourself! Happy? Ha-ha, I will try for your sake, but if someone is trying to be funny, don’t blame me for being nasty!

J: (23:56:49)
I hope that someone is not someone in my family. You never seem to talk much with my dad nowadays, your laughter aren’t present anymore in my house. K, I wouldn’t bother you to much, later end up quarrel again.

R:
Ha-ha, my laughter? No more meh? My laughter is everywhere! Wherever you & Nicholas are around, my laughter will always be there! Hmm…don’t talk meh? Still talk what. Don’t worry, will not quarrel anymore!